July 6, 2017

Seeing A Ffriend Fail



YAWN!  I was up to the wee hours with one of my old consulting customers.  YAWN!

She is the second smartest woman I have ever met, but in fully knowledge of her mind’s powers, she like so many in this culture, cannot reconcile herself with the idea that there is a Creator greater than she.  Sigh … so life becomes far harder than need be.  And like ALL brilliant people - completely unable to navigate a path through life.  Just no common sense.

I have mentioned her long ago in past posts - she is one of the Ted Bundy survivors from 40 years ago.

With the passing of her parents, I seem to have been bestowed with pseudo-father status in life to help her with her questions.  I try.  When her frustrations at life reached a boiling point- smart women do not do well in the dating arena, I introduced her to my PC support guy.  He, also sharp, also frustrated.  They married shortly thereafter.

Now, seven years later, he has begun showing some form of personality disorder - I am not up on this exploding field of mental illness.  I was quite surprised at how he has changed!  Make no mistake he is suffering from some form of mental illness, but having known him well for decades before - yeah, he is undoubtedly addicted or was to something and like so many - has damaged his mind badly!

Really too bad.  I remember having the same conversation with my brother Nick, just before his “disappearance”.  I never questioned that what ever happened to him - drugs were behind it.  And like Kirk, the devil is in the payment for playing in “its” realm.  I am just real sorry that my old customer has more to suffer through now.  Sigh …

For her, she is kicking herself for having listened to him.  She saw the warning signs but chose to ignore them.  I suspect she will divorce him - his issues today could fill many volumes of posts!  And no one in her family has ever divorced!  Now in her fifties, rich enough for several lifetimes, I have no doubt she can replace him - save for the issues I opened with ….

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