Listen Up Young Men!

It has been a few years since I have had to say this ...  but, every four years or so, this topic pops up!

On the internet, when you arrive at a site for whatever reason, lots of data is associated with your arrival and departure:
The address of where you were last
The address of where you are going to
User names, user ids
etc ...

So, when you decide to visit my Blog, any Blog, any site - even your bank!, they instantly find out where you were last - and where you are going to go when you leave!

Now young men the problem ...

Many of you are visiting pornography sites on the internet.  Sigh ... :(

Please consider this:
All of those pretty bodies you are drooling over are someone's daughter, sister, mother.  They are real people whom have obviously been damaged by someone in their past for their lives to be now the willing (and often drugged) object of internet pages.

Objectifying anyone, for the purposes of sexual desire, cheapens human life, warps your perspective on womanhood, sex and the almost dead concept of love.

You damage yourself ...

Twice two of my friends daughters, were drugged and unwilling objects of use, it shattered those young women - and with help they could recover.  With the FBI they could know that no one was ever going to again see those photos and videos ... 

Think! young women!  Watch where you are, whom you are with, literally trust no one with you drinks!  Nor be caught alone with Mr Hottie ...  One of them was in junior high and was not even safe in school!  Watch you are not the single female with a group of males, as one of my high school girls learned in French class!  Fifteen guys raped her before the teacher returned!  And the school district tried to hush it up! GRRRRRRR!

As for the other, more willing victims, yeah something broke them at some point in their lives as well.  I could use my last god daughter as an example.  Smooth talking guy, lots of free drugs, and she is now splattered across the internet!  The first six guys to do this to her went to Federal Prison, then she turned 16 and the Feds no longer cared.  She didn't either, just as along as the drugs kept coming along ...   Now at 21, she is trying to get a normal life together ... but guess what!   She is too well known to get a normal job!  Too broken for normal relationships.  It will be years of therapy ...  Go figure.

So do not assume any woman in the world is going to be like what you should not be seeing.  As a man, you are visual, as a man you have a requirement to hold yourself above the experiences of any dog ...  There are things like integrity, honor and purity which are worth seeking to possess and become.

Yeah, let your real wife be your first kiss and your first experiences.  Note I said, WIFE!
You will owe her that much ...
One day.